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As a parent of course want their child to grow and develop well. But that doesn’t mean a child should be allowed to grow and develop alone, parental roles and supervision are especially important especially when your child starts to exhibit certain patterns of behavior, parents should be vigilant enough to dictate abnormal patterns of behavior as early as possible. Here are 7 patterns of child behavior that initially look normal but if done repeatedly then special treatment is required.
- Children Don’t Care When Witnessing Bad Actions By Their Friends
As a parent you should be able to explain the difference between a fightman and being careful. Nowadays with the rise of bullying cases, it takes participation throughout the layers including you as a parent. Explain to your child if they see bullying behavior immediately report it instead of being uncaring.
- Son Jealous of His Own Brother
At first this attitude does look funny but if left it can be very dangerous. You should be compact and helpful to each other instead of competing against each other. As parents should try to find the root cause and solve the problem immediately together, it could be a mistake to you.
- Kids Love to Steal
When the child has not been able to talk when they want something they will take it for granted, but when the child has started talking but still likes to take something without permission, this behavior cannot be allowed. Psychologically, this can be a bad habit when the child grows up.
- Children Behave Disrespectfully to Parents
If this happens as a parent you have to find the right way to teach your child modesty as this will affect his attitude later in adulthood. If to their own parents alone they are disrespectful what about others.
- Kids Like to Lie
Some say that children who like to lie are the result of the attitude of parents who tend to scold them when they make mistakes, so for reasons of fear of being scolded they choose to lie. Whatever the reason parents have to find a way for the child to want to tell the truth and learn to take responsibility for his actions but surely parents should also be wise, do not get angry immediately but together help the child solve the problems they have caused.
- Kids Love Whining
Actually whining is the attitude of a little boy who doesn’t know how to convey what he wants. But when the child is good enough to talk and convey what he wants still by whining, especially when the parents can not grant his wish then a decisive action must be taken. The role of parents is very important here to explain that as part of the family, all desires should be discussed in the right way rather than whining.
- Insensitive Children
One of the mistakes parents often make unwittingly is to try to give all the best to their children. There is nothing wrong actually but sometimes the attitude of parents who always provide all their child’s needs can adversely affect the development of empathy of the child. Try slowly teaching the child how to empathize with the environment, for example if many dirty dishes try to teach the child to share tasks.
If you find the above 7 patterns of child behavior in your child try to pay more attention and find a solution immediately. If necessary or when the pattern of behavior continues, contacting a more professional party for help is also highly recommended.