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Imagine how tired a husband is to be outdoors all day. Work that is not uncommonly stressful, then coming home comfortable and pleasant is the dream of every husband.
Togetherness in one roof is very important and cannot be trivialized. What a pleasure to be home.
How precious it is for a woman when she is always counting on you as a place of rest, a quiet place, in a quiet home. So give your husband a comfortable home. Comfortable physically as well as feeling. The whole family holds the key to making a comfortable home, actually.
But it doesn’t do you, a wife and an exemplar for the children, who start first to make the house a comfortable place. Here are the tips.
1. Welcome your husband
Welcoming in a sense a good welcome. What happens if a husband who just comes home after a long day of work even welcomes you with a frowning and nagging face? Position yourself as someone who values someone who has worked hard for us and the children.
Smile when the husband comes home. A smile, in addition to giving you peace of mind, will also make your husband feel calm. At the very least, the fatigue will decrease if you know and the house is fine. Even if there is bad news, let me know later when your husband is fresh after bathing, already full of your delicious dishes. Tell us the bad news when each other’s hearts are calm.
2. Decorated for husband
These tips don’t require you to take care of yourself with expensive equipment let alone overuse. Simply dress properly, and keep the body clean. Maintaining body odor is also important. Most husbands instead like the scent of their wife’s body that smells natural, rather than the scent of expensive perfume. So, just don’t be lazy to take a shower. Make time for this. A clean, well-groomed body will also make you feel good, right?
3. Tidy up the house
This is what a physically comfortable home means. A clean house, and worth living in is the best of comfort. Handling household affairs, including tidying the house is the duty of a wife.
Hanging out with your loved ones in a neat home can improve the quality of togetherness. As a tidy, small house warmed by togetherness still feels comfortable, doesn’t it? So look at the health and quality of life of husbands and children. Taking care of your husband’s favorite items can also increase confidence that you can also take care of the household. There is nothing more enjoyable for a husband than having a caring wife.
4. Glorify your husband’s family and guests
Think of your husband’s family as his own family, where there are every flaw you don’t like in your family, you embrace it, not hate it. Every time the husband’s family comes to visit, greet him sincerely. So do guests. Sometimes there are people or friends of husbands that you don’t like. You can’t just behave badly to them because you don’t like it. Be wise.
Be proud of your husband, a wife who is spoken of for her good, not her bad attitude. Imagine your husband always wants to hug you quickly because while chatting to his family and friends, he heard so much about how lucky he was to have you.
5. Sincerely accept the situation
Accept patiently and sincerely whatever shortcomings exist in the household, especially if the economic circumstances and the husband’s work are erratic. A heart that is sincere in its circumstances will bring forth a good attitude as well. A wife who sincerely accepts the circumstances will usually sincerely give service to the husband. So be sincere in accepting your husband’s shortcomings.
Wives who complain more usually husbands will not feel at home. Help each other, try to fix things together. Isn’t the household an intact building that was also built by two people who agreed to build together? When household circumstances are difficult, it feels selfish to just complain and blame your husband. Just agreed to build a good household together, huh? Hopefully these tips can help.